Step By Step

In recent days I have been thinking, no, fretting about certain decisions and events that concern me for the future. I have worried about things that might happen, not even “sure things”. A poem had crossed my memory and I knew I needed to make sure I had it in the front of my mind. The poem is “Step by Step” by Barbara C. Ryberg. While I thought about this poem a step came that I was not expecting. My dear Aunt Joy slipped into glory. I had expected her husband to slip away as his cancer progressed. But I wasn't ready to let go of Joy. But my dear Lord Jesus knew what was coming and allowed it. And I can see now that His way is best. So I am going to refresh my memory and my heart.

STEP BY STEP

By Barbara C. Ryberg

He does not lead me year by year

Nor even day by day.

But step by step my path unfolds;

My Lord directs my way.

Tomorrow’s plans I do not know,

I only know this minute;

But he will say, “This is the way,

By faith now walk ye in it.’

And I am glad it is so.

Today’s enough to bear;

And when tomorrow comes, His grace

Shall far exceed its care.

What need to worry then, or fret?

The God who gave His Son

Holds all my moments in His hand

And gives them, one by one.

Do I still have questions about the future? Yes, I do. But I am going to accept each day, each step of the way, from the one who know the future.





~~Faith Himes Lamb

The Crying Out

 

Some days are ordinary days. We forget about the fallen world we live in. We make socially acceptable sins. We forget our need for our God and begin to slip into the lie that we are doing just fine. We don’t see that we know so little and need so much until…

 The circumstance hits in which we have no control. The grief and separation, searing loss and searing pain. We cry out, “how long, oh Lord.” We beg the question, “Why, oh God.” Our brains scramble for the answer that we do not know.

 We remember that our God intimately knows grief on a human level. And we need Him to. He knows that. Because we can’t carry what sin has done to the world and our hearts on our own. We crumble under the weight of it all. He carries that weight - before, now and always.

 It turns into anger as our fists beat against our hearts. There are so many things that make no sense. Oh the ache of death, of loss, of broken relationships, of hurtful words, of struggling bodies.

 “I cry out to you Lord for help. I cry out, God, please hear me. When I’m in distress I seek you, Lord” (Based on Ps. 77)

 “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.” (Ps 34:19)

 My God, help me when the grief turns to fear, mistrust, closed fists. Help me to believe that You are good. There is hope. There is salvation. Sometimes I say the words and I need you to make them true to my heart.

 I do know this: we are not alone. You are not alone.

Lord I need you, Oh I need you.

Every hour I need you.

My one defense, my righteousness.

My God, how I need you.

--Sandy Gromacki

Mountains or Beach?

This is a common question on get-to-know-you either/or lists. Up until a few years ago, I was a firm member of team mountains. Having lived in Tennessee all my life, I have been surrounded by the beauty of the mountains. In high school and college, I had the privilege to take a few trips to Alaska and a trip to Hungary with a brief stay in Salzburg, Austria. On every trip, I was in awe of the sheer beauty and grandeur of the mountains, much taller than I had ever seen in the eastern United States. On the other hand, when it came to the ocean, I only had vague childhood memories of scary waves and sand that got everywhere.

In 2021, my family took a trip to the beach to get away and relax after the stress of 2020. I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect and mainly looked forward to reading by the pool where we were staying. But from the moment I walked onto that beach, I was mesmerized. Everything from the vastness of the ocean, the unpredictable pattern of the waves, to the feel of the wet sand beneath my toes captivated me. After a long year of staying indoors with limited travel, it was wonderful to be awed by such beauty. My whole family loved that vacation, and we have made that location a regular visit. Now I have a hard time choosing between mountains and beach. Both are magnificent in completely different ways, and I have had amazing experiences surrounded by both. 

Why is it that the mountains and the ocean captivate us so? Why do we often choose to visit places that feature one of the two? As human beings designed in the image of God, we are drawn to appreciate beauty, but I think it is more than that. There is greatness in the height of the mountains, mystery in the depths of the sea, and power in the might of both. The mountains and oceans point us to God.

In Romans, Paul writes that all creation points to God: “For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made” (Rom. 1:20 ESV). But not only does creation point to God, His power is demonstrated through His command over creation. Throughout Scripture, the mountains and the seas are used to demonstrate the power of God. The following is a sampling:

“The mountains melt like wax before the Lord, before the Lord of all the earth” (Ps. 97:5).

“May the Lord rejoice in his works, who looks on the earth and it trembles, who touches the mountains and they smoke!” (Ps. 104:31-32).

“It shall come to pass in the latter days that the mountain of the house of the Lord shall be established as the highest of the mountains” (Is. 2:2).

“Who has measured the waters in the hollow of his hand and marked off the heavens with a span, enclosed the dust of the earth in a measure and weighed the mountains in scales and the hills in a balance?” (Is. 40:12).

“The mountains and the hills before you shall break forth into singing” (Is. 55:12).

“O God of our salvation, the hope of all the ends of the earth and of the farthest seas; the one who by his strength established the mountains, being girded with might; who stills the roaring of the seas, the roaring of their waves” (Ps. 65: 5-7).

“Mightier than the thunders of many waters, mightier than the waves of the sea, the Lord on high is mighty!” (Ps. 93:4)

“And he awoke and rebuked the wind and said to the sea, ’Peace! Be still!’ And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm. He said to them, 'Why are you so afraid? Have you still no faith?’ And they were filled with great fear and said to one another, 'Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?’” (Mark 4:39-41).

“When they had rowed about three or four miles, they saw Jesus walking on the sea and coming near the boat, and they were frightened” (John 6:19).

The greatness, mystery, and power of mountains and seas point to God, but their great power is unmatched by the power of the Creator who formed them. Whether you’re going on vacation to the mountains or the beach this summer or staying here in the hills of Tennessee, let yourself take a moment to take in the majesty of creation. Stand in awe of beauty you cannot understand, then let it remind you of the unmatched power of God. 

--Concetta Swann

 

Simply Put

 

Would you say that you live a simple life? 

What does that even mean? A Google search led me to this definition from livingvalues.net (loosely quoted): Appreciating the small things; freedom from material and emotional desires. Permission to “just be.” Simplicity avoids waste, teaches economy, avoids value clashes complicated by greed, fear, peer pressure, and a false sense of identity. I also found, keeping things uncomplicated; less is more; easily understood. 

I found these tips, but I did not write down the source and cannot find it again, but they are good, so I must share and expound (and these principles are biblical!):

Make room for stillness. There’s a funny meme about a man sitting in a coffee shop just drinking coffee and nothing else. Not looking at his phone or laptop or even reading a book. “Like a psychopath,” the meme stated. I think of that often. Why do I find it so hard to just sit still, breathe, and enjoy a cup of coffee or the sun on my face? I cannot hear God’s voice if I do not embrace stillness. It takes discipline, doesn’t it?

Declutter. Too much stuff makes life hard to manage. You are constantly shifting things around and cleaning is difficult. I knew this man and woman who bought a cabin envisioning all the fun they would have as a family. They finally sold it, because it was not worth all the time they spent mowing the grass, cleaning it, and fixing things. The more you have, the more you have to manage. If you struggle with this, I recommend the book, “Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-ending Battle with Stuff,” by Dana K. White. It is different from any organizing book I have ever read. Ms. White knew the struggle and wrote this book from a messy’s point of view.

Cultivate contentment and strive to have financial margin. Some people chafe against having a budget, but living on a budget is free-ing. The burden of debt and living paycheck-to-paycheck is heavy and exhausting. In a nutshell, it means knowing the difference between wants and needs, having an emergency fund, cutting excess spending, giving as God commands, and spending only what you earn. Dave Ramsey’s “Financial Peace” has helped us tremendously. (Thanks to the Swanns.)

Allow others to help. We all need help sometimes, and we must set aside our pride and accept it. We steal other people’s blessings when we do not allow them to help us. We wear ourselves out for no reason!

Have margin in your schedule. As a society, we are overcommitted. Identify your priorities and say no to extra things. We cannot adequately rest when our schedules are too full. It’s hard to say no to good things, isn’t it? But we must do that sometimes. We trade the good for the better.

Limit social media. Is that in the Bible? Well, the Bible says to “think on these things,” and much of what we see on social media is not good and is designed to divide and anger people. So…

Be thankful. Try not to complain or covet or compare. Look for the everyday blessings. We have many.

Have I mastered all of these things? Of course not, but it is something for which to strive because of all the benefits. Here are 15 benefits (American Behavioral Clinics website) of choosing to live a quiet life that deliberately chooses to minimize noise and distractions.

Less stress

Deeper reflection

Better health

Enhanced creativity

Stronger relationships

Financial freedom

Improved concentration

Appreciation for nature and beauty

Reduced environmental impact

Contentment/ peace/ happiness

Time for hobbies

Mindful living

Less clutter

Freedom to choose what matters

Resilience: strength in simplicity and adaptability

Simply put, a life of simplicity is simply better. And it’s simple, right? Carry on!

 

joyce hague

Casting Away Our Cares

 If you were asked to quote, I Peter 5:7 I’m sure most of you could quickly spout off,

“casting all your care upon him for he careth for you.” This is a verse we’ve all probably

learned since we were young.

We all experience times of anxiety or concern in our lives. Whether it be for a

loved one struggling with illness, poor decisions, financial concerns, etc., the question

can be asked, “How do we deal with it?” Do we attempt to solve the problem on our

own? Do we share our concerns with those closest to us? Do we take it to the Lord?

The word “cast” in the Greek is a very decisive, energetic action word. It could be

described as a fisherman casting out his line into the waters. Peter is telling us that we

need to take our anxieties, cares, problems and literally throw them or hurl them to the

Lord. Let them go!

This action, though, requires something else on our part. If you notice verse 7, it

is only part of the sentence. There are two words that begin this sentence in verse 6,

which require another action on our part. “Humble yourselves”! Verses 6 and 7 need to

be quoted together to realize the true message that Peter is presenting. I know in my

own life, I have often said that in anxious moments I try to give it to God because I know

He is in control, BUT, I’m still holding on to a little thread and not giving it completely to

Him. Why? Because pride won’t allow me to let go. How often have we heard the

phrase, “Let go and let God!”

Notice also the words, “at the proper time." God’s timing is always best. We may

want solutions to our problems now, but God’s timing will always be the best timing. We

just need to let God work all things out for His glory, not ours.

I love what Alistair Begg says in his devotional Truth for Life, “To do this requires

us to give up our pride—our desire to control and triumph over circumstances. Being

humble is what enables us to give our worries to God: humility’s presence leads to

anxiety’s absence.” That thought needs to be on a wall plaque in my house. We need

to daily realize that God always knows what is best in every situation and if we just let

Him work everything to His glory (not ours), our lives would be so much more peaceful.

So, remember the words of the old hymn “All Your Anxieties”:

All your anxieties,

All your cares,

Bring to the mercy seat,

Leave it there.

Never a burden

He cannot bear.

Never a friend like Jesus!

--Bonnie King