Let
Me Entertain You!
I love to
entertain. I really do! No, not by performing for you, though I am a
speech teacher and love to do that kind of performing. I love to have people in my home for good
food and conversation. I was taught to
love to entertain. My mother was a
hostess par excellence and taught me by her example and words. She was quick to remind people that it was a
command to be hospitable, not a choice. The
Amplified Bible renders I Peter 4:9 as “Practice hospitality to one another
(those of the household of faith). [Be
hospitable, be a lover of strangers, with brotherly affection for the unknown guests,
the foreigners, the poor, and all others who come your way who are of Christ’s
body and [in each instance] do it ungrudgingly (cordially and graciously,
without complaining but as representing Him).”
Entertaining
does not have to be a burden. In the
book, The Gift of an Ordinary Day by
Katrina Kenison (one of my favorites right now!) the author says, “The whole
point of entertaining is not to impress people, but to welcome them.”
When my
children were small (five in six and a half years) I thought that I needed to
have my house clean before I could have people over. Then I realized that was not going to happen
and settled for just picked up. People
did not want to come to see a spotless house.
They didn’t even notice what seemed glaring to me. They simply wanted to be invited in.
I didn’t
have much to offer guests in the way of
food. We were too poor for that. So instead I gave them what I had. I remember once having a visiting family over
after church for popcorn and water. I
had several friends who would ask when I was having beans and cornbread or
potato soup so they could invite themselves over. Food is not the major reason to entertain.
I now find
that I can entertain by asking others to help out on the menu. I generally prepare the main dish and my
guests contribute other parts. This last
Friday night I had ten people for dinner, but all I prepared was a
meatloaf. Others brought salad, baked
potatoes, vegetables, rolls, and dessert.
We had a very satisfying meal without burdening anyone. People want to share in the supply. One dear friend washed the dishes as his
contribution.
One of my
goals this year (as it was last year) is to invite new people over, to extend
hospitality to those I do not know well, not just my close friends. I need to stretch a little
further.
What is
keeping you from being hospitable? Let
me challenge you to stretch. Practice
hospitality. Have a welcoming home.
~~Faith Himes Lamb
Thank you, Faith. I love this reminder. It's not about entertaining and impressing; it's about welcoming. My mother knew this, too, and told me repeatedly, "People don't care how much you have. They care how you treat them."
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