Sunday, May 5, 2019

A Better Kind of Friend


The elementary age children at our church have recently started going through the book of Mark on Sunday mornings during their children’s church hour. This morning it was my turn to teach, and the passage was the well-known story of the paralytic man being lowered through the roof of the house to be healed by Jesus. Of course, a vital part of the story (probably the most important part) is that Jesus forgives the man’s sins before he ever heals him, addressing his biggest need first. Here Christ shows His deity, since, as the scribes reason in their hearts, only God can forgive sins. To prove his authority to forgive sins and show that He really is God, Christ does then heal the paralytic. What a great event to be included in Scripture showing Christ’s deity, His desire to reconcile man to Himself, and His compassion for the hurting!

            Yet what I find myself thinking about most today is the persistence of the four friends. They knew, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that what their friend needed most was Jesus, and they went to great lengths to get him to Christ. The room in which Jesus was speaking was packed; there was no way in with a man on a pallet. So they went up to the roof and removed the tiles (probably clay tiles) and lowered their friend down to Jesus. They didn’t put it off until a more convenient time, they didn’t worry about what others would say, and they didn’t give up when it required more effort. Their faith that Jesus could heal this man – that Jesus was the answer to the problem – was unshakable.

            And that truth has not changed over the last 2000 years. Jesus is still the answer, and He is still the only One who can meet our deepest needs. And the best friends are still the ones who point us to Christ.

            Today’s advice, sadly even in Christian circles, often sounds like this: “You can do it! You’ve got this, girl! Believe in yourself!” Yet this is not the Christian message, and deep down we all know we don’t have what it takes. If it all depended on us, let’s be honest: We’d be sunk. And I’m not just talking about salvation; I think we all agree that is in Christ alone. I’m talking about day-to-day living: pressures at work, challenges in parenting, keeping a marriage strong, dealing with changes in life, making difficult decisions, and so on. I, for one, cannot meet the challenges of life, so please don’t tell me I can. Instead, follow the example of the four friends and point me to Christ.

            These are just some of the truths about Jesus to which we can point our believing friends: Jesus cares for you and wants you to cast your burdens on Him (I Peter 5:7). His yoke is easy and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30). He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).  Through Him, you can face all things (Phil. 4:13). He will complete the work He has started in you (Phil. 1:6). He will always provide a way to stand against the temptation you face (I Cor. 10:13). Without Him, you can do nothing (John 15:5). He loves you and calls you friend (John 15:12-15). In Him, we are blessed with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places (Ephesians 1:3).

Yes, Jesus is and always will be the answer. We can do no kinder thing for our friends than point them to Him.


--Amy O"Rear

No comments:

Post a Comment